A JOYFUL NOISE

Last year, with a shattered, broken heart, I wrote this: A Tribute  about my special buddy, Ian.   You can read for yourself how special he was to me..... not just to me, but to his friends.   More importantly, how much more special he was to his family: his mom, his dad,  his brothers and his sisters.  He wasn't a special needs buddy, he was a special buddy whom everyone needed.    I can fill pages of a book about Ian, but even all the papers in the world would not suffice.   ( This picture was taken January 7, 2012 at my best friends' wedding. (Keren and Josh. Just looking at his and his Mother's face, you can tell that he is a fully spirited young man)   This week, I was thinking of him a lot.  I knew this week is the anniversary of his death and I was struggling with it to some degree.  (I've always struggled who close friend's death....for example, several church members, honorary grandparents ...

This past Sunday was my first Sunday back on Worship team after a long 15 month sabbatical.   It was bitter sweet.   Why do I say that?  It was scary and hard for me for one thing.   I have failed to keep up with my singing so I felt very rusty and it also felt like it was my very first time on stage...the nerves set in and seeing a gazillion eyes I felt were stuck on me....I felt I sounded horrible.  Of course, we are our own worst critic.  Those months and months away from my brothers and sisters on team tore my heart into pieces.   Every Wednesdays and Sundays I felt a part of me missing.  I missed the fellowship with them and most of all I missed getting together on those practice Wednesdays where we would all practice together, but most importantly, I missed sharing time...sharing those intimate moments of our hearts where we would pray for each other.   I often wonder what I "missed" in my brothers and sist...

I'm a blog reader, not just a blog writer.    I am single, and because of my health, most of my blog is about my health and how God uses it to help me draw closer to him. Many of my blogger friends are married and have kids.   One common theme I've come across is talking about their kids and I LOVE IT I love how the Moms out there talk about their kids and how they light of the room by their kids smiles, laughter, giggles, etc. Today,  I want to tell you, this weekend, my life, was lighten up by my own grandmothers, smiles.   Sorry for the blurry picture of my grandmother but too many family members were taking pictures of her that their flashes were messing up my Android and I soon gave up, but you get the idea in her smile.    We celebrated Chinese New Year on Feb 10th, Day 1 of the New Year.  In Chinese calendar and tradition, grandma's birthday is the 8th day of the New year.  My cousin (-in-law)   Andy su...

It was probably mid spring last year when I  first heard this song; or rather  listened AND learned this song.  I heard it on the radio here and there but never really "paid" much attention to the meaning of the song.   I really paid attention to it when I was at my sister's church when I saw the lyrics and  heard the familiar tune.  After that, whenever I would hear the song on the radio the meaning became real to me.  It spoke to my heart more.  When I heard the introduction to the song on the radio, I immediately turned up the volume.  I downloaded to song on iTunes.  I played it over and over and OVER .....and OVER.....well, you get the gist.   I played it so often in my room, in the car, in the family room.   One day, last year (probably early summer) I got on the computer to find a youtube video of this song.  I found it ...

Today was a very off day for me.   Off day as in busy and rough day for me.  I haven't been feeling well all this week; my nausea has flared  up more than usual (which I haven't had nausea for quit a long time), my stomach pain has increased and my headaches has been bad.   Also my sinuses has been bothering me since Monday.  With my Mom's "push" I called in to schedule an appointment to see my doctor; I was able to see my doctor right away  (as in I called and they said I could come in immediately!).   Turns out I have a sinus infection.  It's hard to function with a sinus infection along with other health issues.  I am thankful for antibiotics, muscle relaxants, and pain medicines!    Later in the afternoon, I was DESPERATELY looking for some batteries in the closet for my iHOME.  Unfortunately, I couldn't find any; but I came across a cassette tape by Steve Green (I know, doesn't cassette ...

It's a New Year.  Every new year, we hear of new resolutions.   How often do people stick to the resolutions I have no clue.  I rarely make any resolutions due to the fact that I know I probably would be upset if I don't stick to them.   I have made a few over the years that relates to health issues such as stop drinking soda and eating 2-3 fruit/yogurt a day, which I have achieved and continue to the past 2 years.   Most of you who are on Facebook, noticed that on New Years, Facebook asked the question "what is your New Year's resolution?".    As said before I rarely think about this.   But it struck me this year.   This past year, as some of you know, has been an extremely rough year for me.   First I looked at my 2012 calendar and realized that every single month  had 1-3 doctor appointments written down on it.   It was either at UVA or AHC; it was a doctor's visit or ...

Like all vacations, one has to return to reality.  There are chores to be done.  For me, it's more reality than usual.  With my Mom in NY, I'm faced with more tasks than I'm used to and more energy and pain is drawn out of me.  I don't mind at all and I push forward as I can.  Cooking and cleaning more than usual has reminded me of years ago when I was able to live on my own in my own apartment in Harrisonburg. This past week has been busy....I had 2 UVA appointments and tomorrow (Dec 7th) I have an appointment with my Primary Care doctor.  This past Tuesday 12/4/12  I had a minor procedure done at the Pain Management Center.  It is called a TPI or Trigger Point Injection.   It's basically strong pain reliving medication to localize the pain where it hurts the most.  At first, it makes it numb at first but the doctor told me that the real noticeable affect won't be seen until the series of 3 injections is done....